The Becoming Coaching School

Your next chapter starts with understanding who you are becoming.

You may feel stuck, uncertain, stretched by responsibility, or ready for more. You may be leading a family, a team, a church, a school, or an organization through change. We help you understand the patterns shaping your life and leadership, make intentional choices, and move forward with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

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For individuals, parents, executives, churches, schools, teams and organizations.

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Our Promise

Understand what shaped you.
Change what is holding you back.
Become who your purpose requires.

Why People Come to Us

You know something needs to change, but you may not know where to begin.

You do not need to have achieved visible success to deserve support. You may be starting, rebuilding, leading, parenting, growing, or simply trying to make sense of your next step.

Direction

You feel stuck or lost.

You want progress, but fear, confusion, self-doubt or competing responsibilities keep you from moving forward.

Identity

You no longer recognize yourself.

Your old roles, beliefs or coping patterns no longer fit, yet you have not defined who you are becoming.

Purpose

You want your life to mean more.

You are busy, responsible and doing your best, but you need clarity about what matters and how to live it.

Transitions

Life has changed.

A new role, setback, career shift, loss, parenting season or leadership responsibility has disrupted what once felt familiar.

Patterns

You keep repeating what hurts.

You notice the same reactions, decisions, relationship dynamics or habits, but have struggled to create lasting change.

Leadership

Your next level requires a new you.

Your responsibilities have grown, but your confidence, boundaries, decision-making or leadership capacity have not caught up.

The Solution

We work with the whole person, not one isolated area of life.

Your identity influences how you think, lead, parent, work, manage money, relate to others, respond to pressure, pursue goals and make decisions. That is why our coaching explores the interconnected areas of your life and helps you create change that can be sustained beyond one conversation or one goal.

We do not offer quick motivation. We help you build awareness, take responsibility, make aligned choices and practice the identity your next season requires.

01

Understand your story

Recognize the experiences, beliefs and environments that shaped your current identity.

02

See the patterns

Identify what keeps you stuck across work, purpose, family, wellbeing, finances, leadership and relationships.

03

Choose your next identity

Define the person, leader, parent or professional your next season requires.

04

Turn insight into practice

Create decisions, boundaries, habits and accountability that make transformation visible in daily life.

Who We Serve

Transformation for people and institutions at every stage of becoming.

Individuals

For people seeking direction, confidence, healing, reinvention, purpose or practical next steps.

Parents & Families

For parents who want to understand their own patterns and create healthier family environments.

Executives & Leaders

For leaders developing self-awareness, resilience, communication, influence and purposeful leadership.

Entrepreneurs

For founders growing the person behind the business as responsibilities and opportunities expand.

Churches

For faith communities seeking personal growth, healthy leadership, stronger families and meaningful transformation.

Schools & Universities

For students, educators, parents and leadership teams building identity, resilience, purpose and wellbeing.

Organizations & NGOs

For teams navigating change, communication challenges, culture development and leadership growth.

Professional Communities

For associations and networks seeking workshops, retreats, keynotes and practical development experiences.

Coaching Pathways

Choose the level of support your season requires.

Our group and private programs are clearly structured so you can choose between shared transformation and highly personalized support.

Group Coaching

Becoming Reimagined™

A guided transformation experience for people who are ready to understand themselves, interrupt limiting patterns and intentionally design their next chapter.

Why join this program?

You may know you want change but keep returning to the same thoughts, habits or fears. In a supportive group, you will learn a practical framework, hear perspectives that reduce isolation and receive accountability as you practice a new way of living.

You will exploreIdentity, beliefs, emotional patterns, purpose, priorities, habits, boundaries and life direction.
You will createA personal reinvention blueprint, Becoming Declaration and focused 90-day action plan.
Best forPeople who value community, shared learning and a structured journey at an accessible investment.
Expected outcomeGreater self-awareness, clarity, confidence and a practical path forward across the areas that matter most.

Group coaching offers transformation through teaching, reflection, practice and community.

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1-to-1 Coaching

Becoming You™

A private coaching partnership for individuals who need focused attention, confidentiality and support tailored to their specific goals and circumstances.

Why choose private coaching?

Your life may involve complex decisions, sensitive challenges, leadership pressure or goals that require individual strategy. Private coaching gives you dedicated space to think clearly, challenge limiting assumptions and turn insight into decisive action.

You will exploreYour goals, identity, decisions, obstacles, personal patterns and the changes required in your current season.
You will receivePersonalized sessions, targeted exercises, practical action plans and accountability between sessions.
Best forExecutives, entrepreneurs, professionals, parents and individuals navigating important transitions or decisions.
Expected outcomeClearer decisions, stronger self-leadership, aligned action and progress that reflects your priorities and purpose.

Private coaching is intensive, confidential and shaped around your unique transformation.

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Parenting Program

Becoming a Conscious Parent™

A reflective and practical program that helps parents understand themselves first so they can lead their families with greater intention.

Why this matters

Parenting often activates beliefs, fears and reactions inherited from our own childhoods. This program helps parents recognize those patterns, regulate their responses, communicate with greater awareness and create safer, stronger family relationships.

You will exploreYour parenting story, triggers, expectations, communication patterns and family values.
You will practiceEmotional regulation, connection, healthy boundaries, repair and intentional family leadership.
Best forParents, caregivers, schools, churches and parent communities seeking healthier family dynamics.
Expected outcomeMore conscious responses, stronger connection and a family environment aligned with your values.

Available for individuals, groups, schools, churches and parent communities.

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Institutional Partnerships

Bring Becoming to your church, school, leadership team or organization.

We design practical experiences that connect personal transformation with healthier leadership, stronger culture, meaningful communication and purposeful performance.

Keynotes & Talks

Compelling sessions on identity, purpose, reinvention, self-leadership, resilience and navigating change.

Workshops

Interactive learning experiences for teams, leaders, parents, students and community groups.

Leadership Development

Programs that strengthen self-awareness, emotional responsibility, communication and leadership presence.

Team Coaching

Support for teams experiencing transition, conflict, growth, role changes or culture challenges.

School Communities

Programs for educators, students and parents focused on identity, purpose, resilience and conscious parenting.

Church Communities

Faith-sensitive growth experiences that strengthen individuals, families, leaders and community wellbeing.

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The Becoming Method™

A clear process for lasting transformation.

Every program follows the same foundational journey, adapted to the person, group or institution we are serving.

01

Understand

See the experiences and environments that shaped your current identity.

02

Reveal

Bring hidden beliefs, patterns, fears and assumptions into awareness.

03

Release

Let go of what no longer serves your values, purpose or next season.

04

Reimagine

Define the person, leader, parent, team or institution you are becoming.

05

Reinforce

Build the habits, standards, structures and accountability that sustain change.

06

Become

Live the new identity through consistent choices, contribution and evidence.

Montrice Tonui, founder of The Becoming Coaching School
Meet the Founder

Montrice Tonui

Montrice founded The Becoming Coaching School from a conviction that people are not trapped by who they have been. Our experiences may explain our patterns, but they do not have to determine our future.

Her work helps individuals and institutions move beyond surface-level motivation to the deeper work of understanding identity, making intentional choices and building the capacity required for the next season.

Through coaching, group programs, workshops, speaking and organizational partnerships, Montrice creates thoughtful spaces where people can see themselves clearly, take responsibility for change and become who their purpose requires.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Choose the support that fits where you are now.

Is The Becoming Coaching School only for people who are already successful?

No. The school is for people who know something needs to change. You may be searching for direction, rebuilding after a difficult season, growing into a new role, or preparing for greater responsibility. You do not need to have everything figured out. You only need to be ready to understand yourself, make new choices, and take the next step.

What is the difference between group and 1-to-1 coaching?

Group coaching offers a structured curriculum, community and shared learning. One-to-one coaching is private, highly personalized and ideal for specific goals, sensitive situations or complex decisions.

Do you work only on relationships?

No. We work with the whole person across identity, purpose, work, leadership, wellbeing, parenting, finances, habits, relationships, transitions and contribution. The focus depends on your goals and current season.

Can churches, schools and organizations book a program?

Yes. We offer keynotes, workshops, team coaching, leadership development, parent programs and customized transformation experiences.

What happens during a discovery call?

We discuss your current situation, desired outcome and the type of support that may fit best. The call helps both sides determine whether there is a strong coaching or partnership fit.

You do not have to remain stuck simply because you cannot yet see the whole path.

Begin with one honest conversation about where you are, what is not working and who your next season requires you to become.

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